How to Deal

How to Deal

How to Deal

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How to Deal

"Rule #1: There are no rules."

2003

1h 39m

5.4(159 votes)

Drama

Comedy

Romance

Overview

For teenager Halley, love seems like an alien concept. Her mother is divorcing her father, who is dating a younger woman Halley can't stand. Her sister is about to get married and doesn't realize that her fiancé is not the man of her dreams. And her best friend has fallen madly in love for the first time, leaving Halley to feel even more alone. But, when she meets edgy Macon, she learns what love is really all about.

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Golden Mean

Radar Pictures

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Cast & Crew

28 members

Acting

Mandy Moore

Halley Martin

Mandy Moore

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Trent Ford

Macon Forrester

Trent Ford

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Allison Janney

Lydia Martin

Allison Janney

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Alexandra Holden

Scarlett Smith

Alexandra Holden

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Dylan Baker

Steve Beckwith

Dylan Baker

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Nina Foch

Grandma Halley

Nina Foch

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Mary Catherine Garrison

Ashley Martin

Mary Catherine Garrison

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Connie Ray

Marion Smith

Connie Ray

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Mackenzie Astin

Lewis Warsher

Mackenzie Astin

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Charlotte Sullivan

Elizabeth Gunderson

Charlotte Sullivan

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Ray Kahnert

Donald Sherwood

Ray Kahnert

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Andrew Gillies

Buck Warsher

Andrew Gillies

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John White

Michael Sherwood

John White

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Laura Catalano

Lorna Queen

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Peter Gallagher

Len Martin

Peter Gallagher

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Sonja Smits

Unknown Role

Sonja Smits

Acting

Alison MacLeod

Unknown Role

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Bill Lake

Unknown Role

Bill Lake

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Philip Akin

Unknown Role

Philip Akin

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Ennis Esmer

Unknown Role

Ennis Esmer

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Thomas Hauff

Unknown Role

Thomas Hauff

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Darryl Pring

Unknown Role

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Patrice Goodman

Carla

Patrice Goodman

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Audrey Gardiner

Unknown Role

No Image

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Jayne Eastwood

Mrs. Toussaint

Jayne Eastwood

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Sandi Ross

Unknown Role

Sandi Ross

Acting

Dana Reznik

Unknown Role

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Directing

Darrin Brown

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