Avec ou sans toi

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Avec ou sans toi

2002

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Drama

Family

Overview

A short film written by the AIDES teams in Bobigny on the occasion of the International Day against LGBT Phobias, the film features Lucas, a young man who announces his homosexuality to his mother.

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5 featured cast members

Starring

Fred Dias

Hélène

Valentin Nerdenne

Lucas

Michèle Raingeval

Charlotte

Mike Fédée

Sofiane

François Duarté

Un Passant

Creative team

Directed by: François Duarté
Written by: Mathilde Laplaud
Yaël Goldberg

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